An Open Letter

An Open Letter to the Entire LGBTQ Community

RE: The increasingly hostile and unfriendly environment in today’s world for all bisexual and bi-curious MEN!

In the last decade many, many gains have been made for our gay brothers and lesbian sisters especially in the area of Marriage Equality. The wise and astute representation of “Gay Marriage” into “Marriage Equality” did over time work wonders for us. Decades ago who would have thought that today all of us could get legally married in each and every jurisdiction in these United States. Other remarkable gains with greater acceptance and tolerance have been blessedly achieved for gays and lesbians but sadly progress for bisexuals – especially for bisexual and bi-curious men has lagged behind and now our transgendered siblings are increasingly under attack most recently in the armed services and even as to access to public restrooms in many states across the country today.

Sadly, bisexual men and bi-curious men are once again being shoved further and ever deeper into their closets and left there in fear and isolation. Sadly acceptance even by our gay and lesbian siblings has lagged and whereas the LGBTQ family should be united and one – it is no where any nearer to that today than it was decades ago. Bisexuals especially men are just not yet fully accepted and welcomed into our LGBTQ family as they rightfully should be. One day this will come and it must – so we are asking you to help make that a reality sooner than later. One day at a time.

An important first step for all of us – was and is SELF-ACCEPTANCE and greater SELF-UNDERSTANDING. It is all too often so very difficult for bisexual and bi-curious men to do this. The Bi Men Network has been helping in this regard online since the 1990’s as a continuous support and presence for our men at – and in recent years with our new online bi men social fraternity – Beta Mu Society – – and more recently our Facebook public groups. We are reaching out here to you today and now – to ask YOUR HELP in letting bisexual and bi-curious MEN you may know now or come to know in the future about these opportunities for greater self-acceptance and self-understanding.

We have many free resources online and readily available to all these bisexual and bi-curious men worldwide as:

bisexualmen –

our bisexual men at FACEBOOK join free by clicking the following link: